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March 29, 2004

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Jennifer Reed

I happened upon your website after seeing "Monster" last night and finding myself on a little quest for answers to questions that the movie left me asking. I just had to write to tell you how much I thought of your writing. I perused some of your other "thoughts", though briefly as I am at work reading them. I just felt compelled to tell you how eloquent you are and how interesting I found your thoughts to be. Thank you for sharing.

Denise

I happen to know a law professor that was a consulting attorney for Wournos'defense. Being thoroughly familiar with the facts of the case, and having interviewed Aileen personally, she believes that the movie was fundamentally good and accurate. The thing she regretted the most was the fact that Aileen herself gave the filmmakers their title when she specifically asked them to "[not] make me into a monster."

She also elaborated significantly on Aileen's childhood; you are correct -- she was made. And not just by the specific individuals with whom she had contact, but by society.

I have yet to see the movie; I'm afraid that I won't have the stomach for it.

Paul

I have been for days disturbed after seeing "Monster". I have been looking the web up and down to answer some of the questions and to try to put some flesh on my understanding of the relationship with Tyria Moore.
For some reason this has interested me more than anything else. The love story - but what was the real nature of this love. Is it possible there was some mother, daughter aspect to the relationship.
It strikes me that the one beautiful thing to happen to Aileen was to love Tyria Moore, don’t misunderstand me, I don’t think it is important that Tyria Moore loved Aileen or not although it would be nice to think so (and she betrayed her because it was the only way out - no point in two burning).
However, it is a human thing to love and want to be loved - so my thought for the day is that at least the world afforded Aileen the grace to be able to love someone enough to take the fall, if in fact she did - or to sacrifice her only prayer for freedom in order to guarantee the freedom of Tyria Moore.
The most powerful scene in the film for me was the boarding of the bus - sending Selby out of her life. I like to think of myself as a hard nosed business type - former Marine type - but there was a tear or two. Glad I was in a dark movie house where no one could see - heart breaking performance. Heartbreaking story of a person who it would seam did not have a shot.

Linh Khuu

Nearing the end of the movie I was sobbing like an idiot. This movie is incredibly heartbreaking , it was made like no other movie I've ever watched. The movie was far more at a deeper defined level then I expected. It kind of makes you look at life in a different way, it made me think about all the things that I've taken for granted.
Its true that society looks down on bums,prostitutes ect, we only see them as their label, we don't realize the story behind them.

Amy

After seeing Monster over the weekend, my boyfriend made a good point in reference to the title. She became the monster at the point of killing the last man, the one that was going to help her. The others were, in her twisted reality, justified because they hurt her, in one way or another. But that man wanted to help her and she had a hard time going through with it. She did do it,though, thus creating the monster - someone who would kill even when there wasn't a valid reason for it. So I feel like the monster they speak about in the title wasn't someone that was created from her upbringing (which you express you feel should have been divulged more), but someone she became out of her perceived necessity.

shanna

I too have seen monster about 10 times.i went out and bought it the same day it was released on dvd.My facination with this movie is very strong.My childhood was not as bad as lees,but believe me when I say I can see why she did the things she did.I wish i would of had the chance to know of this story befor her death.Im only 24 and will always have a place in my heart for Monster,and will be watching it untill myself have pasted!!RIP AILEEN WOURNOS!! KEEP ON RIDING WITH THE ROCK!!

Andrea

ok i watched this movie tonight and i can honestly say that charlize theron was for the first time in her life a wretched, filthy, lesbian, hooker. Why somone would want to make a movie about such things is beyond me but as someone who is fascinated with the grotesque i LOVED IT despite the fact that i had to shower afterward. My sister told me that she saw a picture of the real Selbie (Tyria Moore) and i would love to find one. If any of you can help me out please let me know. too_teeny16@msn.com

Lynda

I too would like to see a real picture of Tyria Moore. This movie is heart breaking, and I cried. if anyone has a picture or Tyria's own story, please email me with it at sdhmgirl@tds.net

Jessica

I saw the movie Monster and I can't say I disliked the movie but one it did do was made me think. Aileen Wournos delt with many problems in her life, she probably felt as though the world didn't exept her. Even though she murdered 6 men. I do have a tiny bit of sympathy for her. I do believe what she did was wrong and she should have punished for it. Because of my strong beliefs I DON'T believe in the death penalty, it is in no one's hands to take away a life. I believe Aileen Wournos she have spent the rest her life in jail, rather than being killed, because it doesn't make our society any better than her. I give my sincerest apologies to families to those killed.

Sandy

I watched Monster last night and was overwhelmed with the story and Charlize Theron's performance. I could not believe the depth that she displayed in playing Lee. Christina Ricci was a little too naive for the part of her lover but it was believable too because she was so much younger than Aileen and painfully lonely. I would very much like to see a picture of the real lover, Tyria Moore. If anyone has a link that I can go to please send it to the sandra.rodville@temple.edu. Thanks

taren

I enjoyed the movie. I was blown away by the fact of how much Charlize Theron looked like the real life Aileen Wuornos. I would also like to see what the real life Tyria Moore looked like as well.

Taren

If anyone has a picture of the real Tyria Moore please email it to leneephelps@yahoo.com

carol

the real tyria moore is butt ugly, she weighs a few hundred pounds and has maybe three teeth in her entire mouth, I loved the movie but they did take a few liberties with it as movies will do, first of all richard mallory, who was the first man killed had actually served a 10 year sentence for sexual assault, though strangely no one could find this information until after aileen was convicted, the jury never knew the real mallory, he was a violent paranoid alchoholic who frequented prostitutes, I do not doubt that he brutalized aileen, nor do I doubt that she was brutalized by several of her johns, she was a prostitute from the age of around 13, and prostitutes are preyed upon by sadistic men because they are easy targets, as well the police involved in the case were fighting over who was gonna get the rights to aileens story, she kept ranting about how everyone wanted to make money off of her story, everyone dismissed her as crazy, but now we have the movie she kept saying was gonna be made, she wasnt so crazy after all. Tyria and aileen were together for 4 years, much longer than the movie portrays, Tyria hopes everyone is gullible enough to believe she was pretty much clueless about aileens secret murderous life, yeah right! unfortunately you can only get two views about aileen, one shows her as the ultimate victim, the other as a man hating psychopath who killed without reason or remorse, the truth is somewhere in the middle.

Tina

This movie won't leave me alone. Since I saw "Monster" I have been trying to find out what made Aileen. She was a victim. A victim of a miserable childhood, a victim of society. Ultimatly she still decided on her own what she would do. Let's face it, many of us are victimized in childhood and don't end up like Aileen. Aileen did go to the extreme to feel justified. A part of me feels sad for her but another part says she did get what she deserved. The movie was well done, and I bought it on dvd because I would watch it again and again. Aileen, I hope that you did make peace with god.

Lindsay

Much like the other contributors, I also happened upon your website after seeing "Monster" last night. I was curious to find more information about Aileen, as well as her partner. I was interested; but not surprised to learn that her real life love interest, Tyria, was not like Selby at all, yet more like Aileen herself. I found the movie portrayed Aileen as a victim who had no other choice than to murder. This can be a dangerous theme as it is never a persons right, or an 'out' to take another life. I enjoyed reading your article, and will pass your site along to others.

truck_driver

My favorite seen of the movie was when Charlize showed her tits in the mirror! A+ baby! Sure am glad they killed that lying bitch in real life.

Juli

I have watched Monster 2 times now,and I happen to have the habit of analyzing things to death. First of all, I would have liked to have seen a few more minutes of her childhood. My first thought after the movie was over was that she didn't deserve to die, that by her being executed, it was as if society was saying that everything was only her burden. I feel very strongly that she was created, every person who had any capacity for positive influence, authority figures (THE COPS), family, betrayed her. betrayed her basic needs as a child. I also believe that when children are horribly neglected and/or abused, there is a window of time where the child will be scarred forever. I believe that there is an irretrievable boundary of salvation. If this is crossed then the child simply will not be able to feel trust and true human love. I also am beginning to hate "Selby", Tyria Moore, you suck. To try and pretend that you didn't know anything is bull. I think she knew all along how Lee was getting these cars, she even encouraged Lee to continue to prostitute. Even when Lee didn't want to. Although I don't condone her actions, I hate a NARC even more. I truly believe "Selby" was in on a whole lot more than is portrayed. Lee who was so mentally messed up, still understood at some level what loyalty was, and demonstrated it to the fullest with Selby. What, and once Selby sold her out, she never has contact with her. How does she live with herself? Selby sucks!

megan

Try this for Tyria Moore's picture: http://lesbianlife.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?zi=1/XJ&sdn=lesbianlife&zu=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.news-journalonline.com%2Fspecial%2Fwuornos%2F012892convicted.htm

Lindsey

I just looked at Moore's pic. They didn't make any effort in making Selby look like Moore.

Erin

Interesting that they took great pains in turning Charlize Theron, who generally looks nothing like the real Vournos, into a dead ringer--but they gave Moore a new name and the physical appearance of, well, Christina Ricci. I wonder whether the idea was to take the emphasis off of Moore's role in the story, to protect her, or if maybe the filmmakers were afraid of a law suit by using Moore's name and physical likeness.

Vicki

Almost everyone seems to agree that Aileen was made, not born. So get out there and do something! There is a volunteer organization, CASA, that stands for Court Appointed Special Advocate. Children that are in the court system because of abuse, neglect, etc. are given a CASA volunteer that represents them in the legal proceedings. No one else represents the child! SRS works for family preservation, lawyers work for whoever pays them, and who is working for the child? CASA's do! Find out about your local organization and see how you can help kids that need to get out of abusive situations!

BOB

send tyria the dyke bitch to jail, she knew what was going on all the time........is she not a accesory to the crime.......uh duh

hired killer

she is very very revangeful person i like it dont take shit from anyone and if u did it then give them back wow very very intresting woman she is

patrick

Selby didn't look (or act) like Tyria Moore for legal reasons.

Alicia Laube

I have recently sat down and gave monster another viewing...the movie really makes me feel for Aileen, because of her lover sending her up the river. Tyria/Selby knew damn well what was going on and that makes her as guilty as Aileen. I think that Aileen was always probably a little crazy, but I think she completely lost her marbles while waiting on death row. I think that Aileen just wanted something stable in her life, and she would go to any length to keep it. Her whole life was just fucked from the beginning, nobody ever gave her a chance. For that I feel bad that society decided to just take her life. I hope that she did make her peace with God, and finally has some peace wherever she may be. R.I.P, Aileen.

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